Davido Offers A Very Detailed Rationalization On Sophia Momodu, His Daughter Imade And Dele Momodu’s Position
This Is an Official Assertion Launched by Singer Davido 9 Years In the past About His Child Mama, Sophia Momodu, his daughter, Imade Adeleke, Uncle Dele Momodu and How It Was Confirmed That Imade Adeleke was his daughter via DNA take a look at.
Music star Davido has shared extra particulars about his present predicament with child mama Sophia Momodu as they proceed to battle over the custody of their 7-month previous daughter, Imade.
The music star shared all of the textual content and supporting pictures on his Instagram web page this morning and deleted every little thing an hour later.
On this piece he explains why he has acted in sure methods and in addition sheds extra gentle on particulars about Sophia Momodu.
Learn the prolonged (and detailed) piece under;
Beginning of Imade Adeleke
When the second trimester of Sophia’s being pregnant was closing, she tortuously introduced to me that she was within the household method.
My thoughts was bemused, and so was my soul confused. However I rapidly realized that nothing extra could possibly be achieved to change my standing as a father-to-be. I knew that i used to be not able to be a dad. Nonetheless, I adjusted myself to the realities of my new scenario and the implications of my previous private indiscretions.
I made the willpower that I used to be going to be dad. I additionally reasoned that my blunder isn’t sufficient pretext to make me a husband. I used to be simply 21. And so I made a decision to be a accountable dad with out being husband to the mom of my child. I by no means was in love with Sophia neither was marriage ever within the offing.
With out figuring out for positive that I used to be the actual dad of the infant, I entrusted Sophia to the companies of a non-public hospital for each pre-natal and post-natal medical cares. An condominium at Lekki was leased for two years, and paid for by me. The burden of medical payments, feeding, transportation and varied prices rested on my individual. No member of the family of Sophia together with Uncle Dele Momodu rose to assist nor information Sophia.
I personal my property at Lekki and had allowed Sophia to remain in the home as a result of she claimed that she knew no one in Lagos and that her father was deceased while her mom was resident in Abuja. For actual, Sophia was a drifter with no dime, training nor profession. My compassion, ignorance, naivety and poor judgment had mixed to make me a sufferer to a a lot older girl with tremendous crafty sense that was blended with a vicious and diabolical nature. I stand accused however calmly accepted my accountability for the unhappy misadventure that induced me to be a seat-mate with Sophia on a airplane that was flying nowhere.
All alongside, I’ve solely been beneficiant with Sophia with out figuring out for positive I used to be the daddy to the infant she was carrying. On Could 14, 2015, Sophia delivered her child named Imade. It was after Sophia had delivered the infant that DNA testing medically confirmed that I used to be certainly the organic father of our baby named Imade.
As soon as this standing was obtained, Sophia began to use most {financial} calls for on me. I purchased all the infant issues and absolutely furnished her condominium. Sophia knew properly methods to spend cash and but contributed zero to the huge bills that I incurred. None in her household contributed even a pretend coin to the price of having Imade.
Uncle Dele Momodu, now the pompous moralist, by no means visited Sophia nor even delivered an odd greeting card to Imade nor to her mum. All through the numerous months that Sophia stayed at my home when she claimed she has no household in Lagos, Uncle Dele Momodu and his bossy spouse by no means confirmed up at my home to say good day to both of us.
When the going was good, Sophia had informed me loads issues about her uncle Dele Momodu that I needn’t repeat right here. And he or she by no means invited me to go along with her to go to him and I don’t have the data that she ever visited him all through the time she stayed in my home. She all the time defined {that a} go to to Uncle Dele was unnecessary and pointless. Uncle Dele Momodu by no means preferred, and nonetheless doesn’t like Sophia. He’s now simply grandstanding as a result of Sophia had a child for a reasonably outstanding household and well-known Davido.
The case of Mrs Momodu baffles me much more. Why did she not assume it crucial to maneuver to Sophia’s condominium to assist her out and present her the methods of motherhood when Imade was newly born. Not as soon as did she go to Sophia and her child till December 2015. She gave neither care, love nor {financial} help to Sophia. Now, at 7 months previous, and a baby with particular medical wants, Mrs Momodu rushed to the Lagos Airport to make an terrible botch of her standing as a mom: Mrs Momodu definitely not individual. She put time and vitality to stop my daughter and I, the actual father of Imade, from travelling aboard to maintain an appointment with the American Hospital, Dubai. On the level of dying in November, 2015 Imade had been rushed to this medical facility in Dubai, the place she obtained useful and ample remedy, and was duly returned to Nigeria, with none aspect excursions.
What then abruptly propels the concern or harmful love of Mr & Mrs Momodu for Sophia? I deeply sense this couple by no means cherished Sophia nor her late father. In addition they resent her mum, and doubtless are jealous that Sophia ever turned a mum herself, and thus, want that Sophia’s daughter who can be my daughter, should needlessly perish.
The place is the inherent worth in a callous human ploy that immediately intends to stop a baby from receiving crucial medical care aboard as soon as the organic father, David Adeleke, the kid’s grandfather and all my siblings who’re uncles and aunties to Imade are booked to fly on this important medical journey to which we now have hooked up a restful household trip? Sophia ain’t a member of our household, interval.
Certainly, Sophia was not with Imade when she first visited Dubai, and but Imade was promptly returned to Nigeria. And nobody mentioned Sophia can’t come to Dubai besides that I declared that I don’t need the journey to appear like a spousal get-away. Sophia ain’t my spouse and I refuse to let any motion conspire to make us appear to be a pair. She appeared unable or unwilling to pay her approach to Dubai. Additionally, her boastful Uncle, alas, refused to volunteer to pay her approach to Dubai. I by no means advised to an elder what he ought to take up as his private accountability if certainly he cared in any respect for Sophia as his strong involvement in our odd relationship needs to determine. Mr Momodu by no means purchased the ticket however needed to implement his cosine to affix my household on this Dubai journey.
Harmful lights are furiously blinking purple round my daughter, Sophia and my individual. Uncle Dele Momodu and his spouse are suppliers of the vitality espousing the concept of a unnecessary dying to my daughter. I now say it loud and clear, ought to my daughter die, this unusual couple are primarily accountable. Mr Dele Momodu ought to simply depart me and my household alone! His daughter isn’t who had a child for me, and he has been an excessive amount of of an absentee uncle to Sophia to have any traction on the ethical authority that instructions the soul and coronary heart of this matter. Sophia By no means formally launched him nor his spouse to me, at any time. Why are they now crowding my house and that of my daughter?
Custody, Way of life and Imade’s Lack of Wellness
In Could, the identical month Imade was born, Sophia settled in her fancy condominium for which I paid a hefty invoice for a 2 12 months lease. Her child was wholesome. And he or she appeared comfortable. I might deal with all of the {financial} wants of Imade and nonetheless pay Sophia a dwelling allowance of 300,000 Naira plus utility payments.
Inside a matter of weeks, Sophia was lacking and lusting for the streets of Lagos, particularly the glitzy evening life. She typically left Imade house for clubbing, binge consuming and a lifetime of debauchery and deviant dwelling. She would sleep all day and social gathering all evening. When awake, she was hooked on the phone and hashish. She paid the infant no consideration in any respect and appeared to despise motherhood and parenting.
Imade was in her custody for two straight months, unchallenged and uninterrupted, till the infant took badly and severely in poor health in July. Imade cried, ceaselessly, for 48 hours. She was rushed to the hospital the place her situation confounded medical consultants. A number of checks had been carried out on her and in a while the mom. Medical reviews, herein hooked up (exhibit 1), proved that Sophia’s blood was polluted to the utmost degree with hashish and he or she had by the method of breast feeding contaminated her baby with sophisticated medical circumstances related to using alcohol and particularly hashish. The difficulty spot for Imade was her lungs. She had problem respiration largely due to the contaminated breast milk and the severity of the “Second Smoke” of marijuana inhaled by the poor baby.
The medical consultants on the hospital had been enraged by the callous remedy of Imade by her personal mom and declared her unfit for the caring and the nursing of a fragile child. The crew decided that they might hand over the infant to the Youngsters’s Welfare Authority of Lagos State Authorities. My household began to plead with the hospital administration. For the primary time, Sophia too was sober, sorry and contrite. We pleaded that the infant could be saved from the mom as soon as she was returned to us, and that we’d take over tasks for Imade’s welfare.
Voluntarily, Sophia, within the try and keep away from the handing over of the infant to the kids welfare authority, agreed to a compromise place that she would switch Imade to the Adeleke household till the hashish within the techniques of each mum and daughter was utterly out and comprehensively cleaned out. The medical knowledgeable additionally indicated that the complete injury to Imade’s individual couldn’t be ascertained instantly and that her psychological state now or in d future couldn’t be decided nor predicted till maybe when she would have attained maturity. This was why and the way Imade was transferred to the custody of the Adeleke household.
Soonest, Sophia started to make vigorous calls for for the model new automobile promised to her by me in Could. My father stood out of all this matter and pointedly informed me that though I used to be very younger however I used to be already making huge revenue and subsequently should study to be a accountable grownup who takes care of enterprise correctly and accordingly. He had instructed since Could, that i ought to present the mom of my child with a automobile, immediately.
However I’ve since had a change of thoughts on this difficulty as a result of, of Sophia’s evening crawling actions and reckless partying at evening golf equipment. Her clubbing rendezvous escalated. In truth, she had gone to a membership on Victoria Island and spent 250,000 Naira in a single evening. Unashamedly, she informed the administration of the membership to slap “Davido” with the invoice. I’ve refused to pay however until date, the membership has by no means let off the harassment of my individual for the settlement of this wild invoice. I nonetheless don’t imagine that my obstinacy will lastly absorbed from the cost of this reckless cost. This was one of many primary purpose I put the acquisition of the automobile on maintain
In the meantime, Imade was more and more worse off in wellness and he or she needed to be flown to the American hospital in Dubai. I wrote a letter of launch authorizing my sister to journey to Dubai with Imade. The hospital saved Imade who was returned to Nigeria with a medical gear that had for use each day to allow Imade to realize restful sleep and balanced respiratory rhythm. The {photograph} of this gear is hereby hooked up.
If Imade had not gone to Dubai, it’s truthful to say that she is probably not alive at this time. Nonetheless, some individuals prevented her from protecting a follow-up appointment on the American Hospital in Dubai. For the silliest potential purpose. My household wouldn’t pay for Sophia’s flight ticket and thus Imade could be disallowed from touring for the very important objective of medical circumstances that lend oxygen to her life. Which is extra vital to Mr Dele Momomdu, the ticket for his cousin or the general wellness of Imade? And why can’t this glamorous uncle purchase the ticket for Sophia in order that the lifetime of imade isn’t compromised?
The declare has been made that the aborted journey to Dubia was to take Imade to America. This isn’t true. Imade’s Nigerian passport is correct now with the Immigration Workplace with no American Visa embossed on it and Imade, although certified to own an American Passport as a result of her dad is an American citizen, nonetheless doesn’t possess an American passport. True, her passport is being processed however the truancy of her mom has induced a serious delay. I subsequently ask, how will Imade have entered America with no visa on her Nigerian passport? The good dynamics of mendacity is that the liar is the primary to know that he has informed a lie, and the lies informed would definitely demolish his integrity and the peace of his soul. Uncle Dele Momodu, beware!
So poor in understanding is the cerebral capability of your cousin or niece that she can’t even function the gear that stabilizes her baby’s lungs regardless of rigorous coaching supplied to her (Exhibit2). She is dismally inattentive. However she is a wonderful cannon fodder for all of the frivolities of life. What extra can I do for a lady who isn’t my spouse? I’m 23. I ain’t prepared for marriage and even fatherhood. However I’ve accepted my tasks as my father raised me to know life and cope with all its challenges.
The one purpose why a few of us are dancing bare out there place at this time is as a result of Sophia’s request to go to Dubai on my ticket was declined. She is demanding for her new automobile and a increase of her allowance to 1 million naira monthly. The only purpose why she’s demanding for the custody of Imade is to justify the need for this delusional a million naira. A home matter that might have been quietly and sensibly settled has been tossed to the general public area with the brutal penalties to essentially the most harmless actor on this drama, Imade.
From December 23-28, Sophia lived at my father’s Lekki residence in peace aside from the primary one hour when a medicine was misapplied by her and Imade speedily vomited for a fearfully very long time. Sophia didn’t know methods to even bathe her personal child. She introduced a pal to stick with her in a 3-bedroom flat with a resident skilled nurse and nanny. General, her keep was joyful and in alignment with the thrills of the Christmas vacation season.
On December 29, lower than 24hours of leaving my father’s home, Sophia was on the airport within the firm of her uncle and his spouse with malice aforethought and the intention to do most injury that might hinder her baby from touring aboard to obtain crucial and needful medical care. She was welcome to affix us if she had purchased her ticket or her uncle had funded her for the journey.
I supplied to purchase her a automobile and advised a Toyota model or Hyundai. She misplaced her cool and informed me off. She needed a flowery jeep and ideally, a Mercedes Benz Jeep. I laughed as a result of she simply needed to be a Lagos Huge Woman for nothing. She hardly can address the most cost effective automobile a lot much less the ruinous value of sustaining a Mercedes Benz car. In December she obtained 500,000 naira as her allowance with out doing something for Imade. Life isn’t a mattress of roses. Neither have I ever promised Sophia a rose backyard. Her spontaneous motions of delusions totally baffle me!
On her twitter web page, she claimed she has recovered Imade from captivity. However Imade by no means was in captivity. Sophia definitely is aware of the place Imade is. And it’s the place she left her on December 28, at my father’s home. What’s the lie about? Sophia additionally claimed that she hasn’t seen her daughter in 5 months This can’t be true. Sophie spent each Sunday along with her child at my father’s home since July 2015 when she voluntarily transferred Imade to the Adeleke household after the hashish incidence. She and her daughter continually seem on her face e book and twitter pages all through this era of 5 months. What method of unreliable and mendacity individual is Sophia? The image of your reconciliation with Imade after “captivity” that you simply posted in your twitter web page got here immediately from the photograph shoot that you simply posed for at my father’s home throughout your Christmas keep. Why can’t you ever be affable with reality nor have a relationship with honour?
Uncle Dele Momodu was the primary to deliver this home matter on-line and onto the web. Uncle Dele Momodu ran smack into the web freeway on December 30 with Video recordings that he dishonestly, immorally and unlawfully recorded at a authorities facility and workplace on the Murtala Mohammed Worldwide Airport, Lagos. Uncle, you’re improper and you aren’t doing the appropriate factor. By doing a factor so illegal over a home mater between a 23-yearold boy and your niece is a bothersome slight that proved your niece should have learnt her sleazy methods from your personal achieved slap-happy conduct.
Life is gorgeous if all of us stay in easy methods and don’t interact legal devices to interchange integrity and honour. Your nugatory video recordings has achieved nothing however uncovered your naivety and lack of decorum. Your recordings can’t alter the truth that I’m “Davido” father of Imade and it can’t pressure me to be the husband of your cousin. In fact, I don’t know in case you are uncle or cousin to Sophia. The phrase uncle has misplaced it esteem for the reason that time that sleaze bucket took over our land. Nonetheless, Uncle Dele Momodu, it’s immoral, illegal and unethical to clandestinely report anybody, particularly family and friends members. This scandalous act really obtained you slaughtered and put a brand new slant in your individual.
Late night on December 30, I responded to your vicious web publications that attacked me and my household. As you properly know, my response was a slam dunk that damage you badly and diminished your individual. You maybe deserved what you bought. However my father’s counsel and the love I’ve for Imade prompted me to recall the arrow aimed toward you. You see, my father raised me properly, and I promptly complied along with his recommendation. I thus deleted all references to the problem of December 29 on the Airport and apologized to you specifically together with all my followers. I confirmed you respect even when u had drunkenly provoked me.
As a substitute of reciprocating with love and aged knowledge, you sustained your assault of me with much more venom and hatefulness. With all due respect for my dad, I’m compelled to talk to your lies and your simulation of grand self-importance. I’m 23 and you’re virtually 60. Your cousin has a child for me. Slightly than deliver us collectively as a household, you wished for glowing embers to come back out of cool cucumber. You realize rattling properly methods to grandstand. This is the reason you instructed your attorneys to place rubbish on the web in a matter that needs to be showcased within the courtroom of legislation. Uncle, who offended you? Is it Davido, Sophia or Imade? It can’t be my late mum after whom I named Imade. Is it my light dad? Why have you ever engaged your self in a bitter non-public vendetta with my household? Uncle, you should have your day in courtroom. However you’ll soonest be compelled to embrace the truth that the crowning glory of your puffing and satisfaction rests in your beautiful vacancy. Once more, I dare you, publish the rubbish in your vainness trunk or perish!.
I’m 23 and a performing artiste that God immensely blessed and I’ve joyfully made good within the trade. I received’t do that without end, and I shall well timed step apart within the nearest future. I’ve a level and I’m stashing my monies apart in order that I can construct an honest future for Imade plus my future spouse and household. I imagine because the bible says, “each good reward is from above”.
There’s nothing higher in life than to inform the reality and pray. Could God ever stand by me and ship to me my desires and needs. Could He additionally ship to your personal kids their desires and needs. Uncle Dele Momodu, please, please depart me and my household alone even whether it is clear, by God’s will, you could’t do us a factor. As for me, that is the top of this dialog. Could God lead each of us to the righteous path. I thanks very a lot, sir.
Culled from Bella Naija